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Dating an older successful man - The Perks—and Challenges—of Dating a Much Older Man
We surveyed three thousand of these men to find out exactly what a successful man notices first in a woman. Almost all of these qualities were the same as what they notice in job seekers. Though successful men are not usually so public about their emotions, a bad breakup is seen as a scarlet letter to their circle of friends or colleagues. With that in mind, SeekingArrangement. The fifth most important quality successful men noticed in women was their hair.
A man of stature is under constant scrutiny, but also keep in mind that he is likely an alpha male in his own right; running into colleagues or business partners at lunch would prove awkward and deeply embarrassing if he is seen with a moving Hot Topic ad.
Keeping hair to a natural hue and focusing on how healthy it looks ups your chances greatly. After all, hair growth and quality is highly dependent on hormones and nutrition -- an alpha male wants to show that he picked the best out of the dating pool.
A sense of self was the fourth on the list. A common deal breaker with employers during an interview is a candidates pretending or exaggerating their understanding of a certain subject. Our survey found that this was also a big pet peeve among successful men looking to date, particularly in cases where women lied about the extent of their knowledge when it came to current events, politics and culture.
The way a woman carries herself when she walks, or her gait, was third on the list. Gait defines public presence. Posture was the second most important quality. Give him a break. He will get back to you when he has time. Save the drama for your mama. The second you pull the dramatic, needy girlfriend bit…start packing, because you, and those amazing shoes you just bought at Saks will be waiting for you outside the door. Like I said almost ALL successful men work long hours and be that woman he can enjoy having around, not the burden.
As vain and somewhat sexist as that may sound, it is VERY important. Name the last time you saw a rich, famous, or successful man dating a woman in an Aeropostale sweatshirt, jeans, and Converse sneakers??? Educate yourself on fashion and beauty, look chic and classy at all times. They eat that girly girl shit up. Workout, keep in shape and take care of yourself! Be someone your man can be proud of. Be well spoken and well mannered.
Many woman lack this today. You are going to be around many of his colleagues and clients that have money and many will be highly educated. Learn some manners and etiquette. Rule 6 Be the woman that takes care of your man. Do nice things for him and take care of him and I promise it will pay off in the end.
Successful men often lack and miss having that sense of normality in their life. Give him love and a warm home environment to come home to. Yes, maids, chefs, and nannies are all good, but successful men what the reassurance that you can take care of him all by yourself. He will appreciate you for it.
This is the difference between the marrying kind and the one night stands.